
Let me preface this story by saying that I have a mission to make my kids try new foods, not because I want to make them gag at the table (I'm sure that's what they think) or because we're out of what they like. I just think they have to know what they think about foods - and doesn't it take a few times before kids get used to a new taste? Sometimes they have to eat things they don't like. For example, oatmeal. We all love it but Ellie and she still has to eat it. And quesadillas for Lydia. I just can't make adjustments for everyone's tastes. Well, except for mine, of course. I don't make anything I don't like! :)
So last night we had homemade mac and cheese (check out Rachael Ray's
recipe for one of our family favorites) and a basic spinach salad with mushrooms, almonds, dried cherries and red onion. The girls love spinach, but they each had to have one dried cherry and one mushroom. Lydia always gets the worst over with immediately and saves the best for the end. So she finished hers and said the mushroom wasn't so bad. Later in the meal, I looked over at Ellie and saw hers was missing, too. "How was your mushroom, Ellie?" I asked. She didn't skip a beat and said, "it was pretty good." And dinner moved on. A few minutes later, Ellie pulls a little spinach leaf out from under the rim of her plate with a mushroom resting inside like a passenger on a tiny green boat. She must have said something like, "actually, I didn't eat my mushroom yet" (Ellie loves to use the word "actually.") I was totally shocked and at the same time had to laugh. What a classic kid thing! She still insisted on eating it last, which is her preference and I can respect that, but did finally do it and didn't even gag. It was a great opportunity to talk about how it feels to lie. Later at bathtime we had this conversation:
Me - I bet you felt pretty worried after you lied about the mushroom, huh?
Ellie - yeah
Me - Like you couldn't think of anything else until you told the truth?
Ellie - yeah
Me - Didn't you feel tons better after you told us the truth?
Ellie - yeah
As you can tell, she had a lot to say on the matter. Actually, I could tell she felt ashamed and didn't want to talk about it. I told her I was proud of her for choosing the right and telling us the truth even when it's hard. In the end, I hope she's learned a good lesson from a harmless little lie. I am honestly grateful for perfect teaching moments like these. And you know I'll be checking under her plate for a few days, at least.... :)